Monday, December 27, 2010

How do you feel about pot?

It has come to my attention that certain members of my circle of acquaintances are quietly smoking a substance that is at the present time illegal.  I can't say I'm surprised by this.  I imagine that it's quite common for individuals in any circle of friends to do things that are technically illegal.  Like parking too near a stop sign, or speeding on the freeway.  I personally know adults who have shoplifted and others who have cheated on their taxes.  I'm not immune, either.  I walked drunkenly down a street shortly after celebrating my engagement.  I regularly go faster than I should on roads that are not near schools.  I reuse stamps if they haven't been canceled.  And I have knowingly kept several extra mints from the bowl at the entrance to Macaroni Grill.  But the idea of smoking pot, well, that's kind of different.  I worry about the rather serious consequences of the act even as I acknowledge that they rarely happen.  I also worry about the problems caused when one is impaired.  It likely isn't much different than the effects of alcohol, however, the results can be much more significant.  So I wonder how others feel about this.  My generation has had their go at laws regulating mind altering substances.  What will the next generation do?  Is it looked on differently?  Should I worry about these friends or just smile and think perhaps I'm just old fashioned?  

Saturday, December 11, 2010

Forced to tell people what I want

Along with the obvious, another reason I write this is that we had a dinner party yesterday.  People there wanted us to share a memory from our childhood holidays.  I have plenty of memories, just nothing I wanted to share with the group in attendance.  How does one get oneself out of such a "sharing" situation without looking like a total jerk?  When you know, let me in on it, because it made me pretty uncomfortable.

Now to the list:

This is a cute teapot and tea I've been wanting for some time.  It doesn't have to be this exact one, but one similar at least.

I would love some Honey Sticks, though I'm pretty sure you can get them locally.  And I don't care what variety as long as it isn't something crazy like lemon zest of jalapeno.

The Blind Side DVD

This book about online teaching

I would like a new carry-on suitcase in a color other than black.

I could use a 8 gb SD card for my computer and a new 4 or 8 gb jump drive with a STURDY way to connect it to my key ring.

27" half slip in extra large or size 40 in black.

A couple of seed starting items this and this. Though this is a big item and we're moving...

A back rub from Lucas (not a certificate which I tend to lose)
A dinner cooked by Kimmi
Dinner at Carrabbas from Mike

That's it. I can't think of anything else.